It pretty much goes without saying that there are a lot of differing opinions floating around the country right now. A lot of opinions… and even more lies, half-truths and overreactions to base the opinions on. Our country feels so divided at times, that it’s almost as if we are speaking different languages. So in order to get my point across here, let me use a language I’m pretty sure we can all understand: food. And not just any food: dessert…

My friend, Mary-Butler, decided to celebrate her birthday over the weekend with some cherry pie and invited Robbie and I to enjoy the pie with her. At least– we all hoped we would enjoy the pie. See, when MB and her husband, Matt, went to the Fresh Market to get the pie, they ended up getting some interesting reactions to their choice. They picked up the “no sugar added” cherry pie. However, they quickly learned from the three women behind the counter, that it was probably not the best choice. At least, in their opinion. Afterall, THEY certainly wouldn’t eat it! Now mind you, they did bake the pie, but none of them had actually tried it themselves. The strong reaction they felt was based on the fact that A) it wasn’t exactly like the kind they would make at home and B) it had already been the subject of one woman’s complaint. She’d apparently returned her pie to the store, complaining loudly that it was too sour and disgusting. And thus the poor pie was labeled so in the minds of these bakers. But it didn’t stop there. The same complaint story was told to Matt and MB again by the boy who checked them out. He, too, hadn’t actually tried the pie himself, but based on the woman’s reaction and subsequent reaction of the bakers, he assured Matt and MB that they could get a full refund if they brought even one piece back because it was so bad.
Well, you can imagine that they were a little bit nervous about trying the pie, what with all the negative publicity that it was getting. None-the-less, they took the pie home and served it up to celebrate a birthday. And I’m here to tell you that it was one DAMN GOOD PIE. I wouldn’t have changed a thing about it. Not only is it a healthier version than the sugary, canned filling that many cherry pies are made of, but it really tasted great!
What does this have to do with opinions in the country, etc., etc.? Well, in case the metaphor wasn’t as obvious as I’d hoped, my point is this: there are a lot of opinions out there, most of which are not based on fact, but merely on the views expressed by someone with an agenda. I’m not asking anyone reading this to agree with me on the debatable issues, such as healthcare, that are on the table at the moment. All I’m asking is that, as a nation, we stop getting wrapped up in the hype and other people’s opinions and start checking facts for ourselves before jumping the gun on something. Don’t pass along an email that you can’t verify for sure came from the original source, or was actually stated by the source that the email claims it was stated by. Did you hear it yourself? Did you look at the bill, etc., in question yourself and read through it to find out if the claims people are making are true? We all know how dangerous it can be to spread water-cooler gossip. Stop to ask yourself what is really important to you and what you feel is important for your fellow man, and THEN go to the sources for yourself. If you’re going to take a stand, know what you’re standing on. AND– know what it is you think you’re standing against. Make sure the two really do line up like you think they do.
And maybe what you find yourself really standing on isn’t going to be the same platform that is seems like everyone around you is crowded on to. But if you still think that’s where you should go, just be sure to take a poll of how many of them have actually taken the time to taste the pie for themselves before you try to squeeze onto the stand with them.
Or better yet, don’t take their word for it. Don’t take my word for it. Try an honest bite of the truth for yourself and see what you think. Here are some places to start:
www.factcheck.org
http://wordpress.asc.upenn.edu/2009/08/twenty-six-lies-about-hr-3200/
http://change.gov/content/home
